***HOW TO BE A GOOD GIRLFRIEND FOR YOUR GUY? 50 MUST KNOW TIPS ***

“Stand by your man,

Give him two arms to cling to,

And something warm to come home to,

Stand by your man,

And show the world you love him,

Keep giving all the love you can.”

– Tammy Wynette

How to be the perfect girlfriend for your guy? There’s more to it than just standing by your man, but the lyrics by songstress Tammy Wynette perfectly sum up what men look for in a girl: They want someone who’s going to be there for them.

The problem is that it’s never easy to know what else they want because guys have this thing where they very rarely talk about their feelings. They keep things bottled up and never tell us what they want us to do.

This can make it hard for you as you aim to be the best girlfriend ever. But it’s okay because Beauty and Tips has got you covered. Let’s take a look at…

50 THINGS YOU NEED TO DO TO BE THE PERFECT GIRLFRIEND

SHOW HIM THAT YOU NEED HIM

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Nowadays, women are more independent than ever. Feminism has liberated us, more and more women are landing top-level jobs – and we don’t really need men.

This is problematic because many of us still want men.

But the thing is, a guy isn’t going to be drawn to you if you can’t show him that there’s a need he can fill.

Biologically guys are still the same. They want to play the role of provider, and they want to fill needs.

It’s important that you show him that you’re confident, ambitious and even independent to a degree – but it’s also key that you show him that there’s a need he can fill.

You can do this by letting him fix stuff for you. Show him that you still depend on him for certain things – ask him to help you write a business proposal, ask let him carry for the shopping from the car to the house for you. These are small things but they mean a lot of a man. If you can do everything by yourself, you’re making his role totally redundant. And that isn’t cool, and it won’t help you with this relationship.

BE SPONTANEOUS

Most people like some structure, but if you’re a total control freak who refuses to do anything spontaneously, you’ll struggle to keep hold of a guy.

Guys like to do things on the fly; they enjoy freedom and flexibility, and they don’t want to be constrained by restrictions all the time. If you can’t do something because you weren’t given any prior warning, and if you constantly act like this, he’ll seek adventure elsewhere.

Loosen up and be spontaneous. Be a little crazy if necessary. What’s the worst that can happen?!

GIVE HIM HIS SPACE

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He loves spending time with you. He loves being with you and doing stuff with you.

But he also needs his own space, and he needs you to respect that.

Guys do guy stuff. They have beers with their buddies in the bar (and no girls are allowed). They go to sports games.

They like to spend time by themselves, too; they go fishing, they sit in their sheds and indulge in their hobbies.

If you impose too much on his space and are too demanding on his space, your guy won’t be too happy at all. You won’t be the perfect girlfriend – you’ll be the worst!

Enjoy your own space and let him enjoy his. Spend time together but don’t be afraid of spending time apart either.

DON’T BE INSECURE

We know this one is easier said than done. If you have a lot of insecurities and have always had them, it’s very hard to just banish them.

The problem is that, if you can’t at least keep them under control, it’s going to end your relationship. They will manifest themselves in ways that create distance between you and your boyfriend. They’ll eat away at you and chip away at your relationship.

Perfect girlfriends don’t let their insecurities get the better of them. If they have them (and we all do), they control them.

DON’T JUDGE HIM

Guys aren’t always the most self aware. They’ll wear ridiculous clothes and do ridiculous things.

But as easy – and tempting – as it is to judge guys for what they do, this is the LAST thing you should do.

In his mind, the things he does are totally cool. They are his decisions and his mistakes to make.

If you judge him and tell him not to do stuff? It’s going to annoy him and put distance between the two of you.

Be a non-judgemental person for him. Offer criticism and advice but don’t judge.

BE HAPPY AROUND HIM!

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Imagine if he turns up to meet you one day and you have a sour face?

Imagine if he hangs out with you and all you can do is complain and whine?

And what if you’re sad all the time?

Be happy!

Laugh with him, tell jokes and have a fun time. Make him want to see you again and again!

SUPPORT HIM

As well as not being very self aware a lot of the time, guys often harbour pretty big ambitions and dreams.

Hey, sometimes they achieve their dreams and that’s amazing, it really is.

But sometimes they don’t – and sometimes you know they never will.

However, if you’re in a relationship with a guy you HAVE to support his dreams, goals and ambitions.

Be his biggest cheerleader. Be the one on the sideline who’s telling him he can do this. Pick him up when he’s down, show him that you believe in him. He can’t do anything without you – needs you by his side. Don’t let him down.

TAKE AN INTEREST IN HIS INTERESTS

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Naturally, there will be things he’s into that you either don’t dig at all or don’t have any knowledge about.

But instead or remaining ignorant or apathetic, show some interest in his interests.

Why? A guy doesn’t need you to take up his passions and hobbies, but he wants to share them with you. Hobbies mean a lot to men and they want to take to their partners about them. Let him. Ask questions about his interests – take an interest.

FEED HIM!

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They say that the best way to a man’s stomach.

But this surely isn’t true, right?

Actually, it probably is.

In a man’s eyes, if you can cook great meals, you’re a keeper.

Look, men get hungry a lot. They eat a LOT.

They don’t always have the time to cook themselves, and when they do try to cook, they usually burn something.

Which is why it’s really great when a girl comes along who can not only cook, but who can cook amazingly well.

Heard the expression “hangry”? It refers to someone who’s so hungry that they’re now angry.

When guys eat good food, they feel AMAZING. And they have a lot of love for whoever cooked them that good food. Just make sure it’s you, okay? Great.

DON’T POSSESS HIM

Yeah, he kinda is yours.

But that’s not the same as him being your property.

If you try to possess him, he’ll start to feel trapped and he’ll want out.

To be the perfect girlfriend, you need to act like he’s yours – but you mustn’t possess him. It’s a fine line but it’s as simple as giving him his space and letting him live his life. Don’t hem him in.

GET ALONG WITH HIS FRIENDS

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We know. The first time you met his friends, you didn’t like them.

Maybe you darn well hated them. They drink, make crude jokes, watch sports and seem a bit lazy.

But hey they’re his friends. They’re his crew and the last thing he wants is a conflict between you and his friends.

Guys need their girls to get along with their friends, otherwise this just isn’t going to work. Work hard to get to know his friends. If you really don’t like them, just deal with them. But don’t make this aspect of your relationship difficult because it could ultimately cost you.

TRUST HIM

True, trust has to be earned. But some girls literally never trust their men – even when their men haven’t done anything to break the trust.

If your guy has never cheated on you, you need to show him that you trust him. This is VERY important. Without trust, a relationship just can’t survive. You might not realise it, but your lack of trust will manifest itself in various ways via snide comments or bad habits that begin to get on his nerves.

You might say things like, “you’ve been seeing a lot of her recently,” and while in your mind you just want some reassurance from him, he’s going to think you don’t trust him – and this can erode a relationship.

Show him you trust him. Don’t be jealous. Let him do his thing, be positive and confident in yourself and what you bring to this relationship. Why would he want to look anywhere else when he has you?

BE POSITIVE

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Nobody wants a negative girlfriend who can’t even bring herself to smile.

And your man certainly doesn’t want that.

Negativity brings us down. It infects us and kills our spirit.

If you want to be the perfect girlfriend for your guy, you need to have a positive outlook.

Be a glass is half full person. Be optimistic about everything that you do. Smile, laugh, adopt a can-do attitude.

BE SYMPATHETIC WHEN HE’S HUNGOVER

Admit it – you LOL’d.

We LOL’d when we wrote this and had to ask ourselves, “can we really include this?”

But you know what? We sure can!

Look, every now and then, a guy wants to go out drinking with his buddies. As long as he doesn’t do it all the time, we think any girl should be totally cool with it.

The morning after the night before, he’s going to be pretty tired and hungover.

Which means that, no, he probably won’t be in the mood to go shopping with you.

And, no, he won’t want to work on the bathroom today.

And, no, he won’t want to see your mom.

He might not even want to spend much time with you. Instead, he’ll probably want to curl up into a ball and just die.

So let him do that. Don’t nag him, don’t nudge him, don’t berate him and don’t complain to him about him. Just let him be.

And THAT’S what makes the perfect girlfriend, ladies.

DON’T SPEAK ILL OF HIM TO OTHERS

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We can’t for the life of us think why a woman would ever speak badly of her boyfriend to her friends. But it happens.

Will he ever find out? Maybe not. But how you act when he’s not around matters just as much as how you act when he is around. If you’ve no integrity and don’t mind bad mouthing him, you’re not a perfect girlfriend.

LOVE YOURSELF

You know what he really wants you to do? He wants you to love yourself.

He doesn’t want you to hate and berate yourself. He doesn’t want you to obsess over your stomach, declare that no clothes look good on you, and refuse to leave the house because of how you look.

He doesn’t want you to cry constantly about your looks, and he definitely doesn’t want you to tell him repeatedly that you hate yourself.

It makes you feel lousy, it makes him feel lousy and it ruins the relationship.

So don’t do it. To be the best girlfriend possible, present to him the best version of you possible. Love yourself and your relationship with your man will flower.

DON’T MAKE HIM FEEL JEALOUS

We know you wouldn’t cheat on him and maybe he knows it too.

But what you might not realise is that some of your behaviour might be causing him to feel jealous … and that’s kinda not cool.

Flirting with other guys? Not cool.

Talking to other guys a lot online? Not cool.

Being really secretive over your phone and who you talk to? Not cool.

Got a “work husband”? NOT COOL.

For this to work, you need to be the perfect girlfriend. And to be the perfect girlfriend, you need to make sure that he has no reasons to feel jealous.

If he feels jealous without you doing anything to provoke it, that’s his problems. But if you know that you’re doing stuff that could upset him and make him jelly, you need to cut it out.

SURPRISE HIM

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We all know that girls love surprises, but did you know that guys love surprises, too?

Yup, they totally do!

Buy him an unexpected gift now and then. It doesn’t have to be anything major – it could be a ticket to see his favourite team, or it could be a McDonald’s meal that you picked up on the way home from work.

Each time you get him an awesome surprise, we can guarantee that he’ll brag to his mates about you.

“Guys, I’ve got the best girlfriend EVER.”

COMPLIMENT HIM

HOW TO BE A GOOD GIRLFRIEND

We know guys who say that their girlfriends NEVER complimented them.

Weird, huh?

There are girls out there who – for whatever reason – keep their compliments to themselves. They might like something about a guy but they don’t come out and say it.

And the one time they do shoot him a compliment is to say that his sweater looks good.

Really? Is that the best you’ve got?

During the first few weeks of dating, guys want to hear comments about how they look.

“You have great lips,” or “I love your eyes,” always go down well.

But once the two of you have settled into a cosy relationship, they want you to go into specifics. They want you to compliment their intangible qualities that essentially make them who they are.

For example you could say to your man that you love the way he protects you and looks after you. Or you could say that you love the way he picks you up when you feel down.

These are very specific compliments that will make him feel good about himself, as well as this relationship at large.

From now on, stop keeping those compliments locked up. Open your mouth, find something you love about him and let him know, girl! He WANTS to hear it.

INTRODUCE HIM TO YOUR MALE FRIENDS

Got male friends? Got male friends you’re actually kinda close to?

Then don’t you think it’s time that you introduced your boyfriend to your male friends?

Look, he knows you hang out with guys. You’ve told him.

But what he doesn’t know is what goes on when you hang out with guys.

You come home from work and you talk to him about your day. You mention Kevin from HR who you have a laugh with.

To you, this is totally innocent. Sure, you have a laugh with Kevin from HR but you know that you’d never date him. You don’t see him like that.

The problem is that your boyfriend has never met Kevin from HR and has no idea what he’s really like. Is he ridiculously good looking, is he charming, is he trying to get into you?

So that your boyfriend doesn’t start to get worried, paranoid or even jealous, the best thing to do is to let him meet your male friends. It will put his mind at rest and strengthen your relationship. Organise an evening out where you can all meet and let him see that your male friends are just that – friends you would never date.

LISTEN TO HIM WHEN HE’S IN A BAD MOOD

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Okay, we all know that guys can get into some pretty bad moods.

Sometimes, they get into some vicious moods.

But look, when your man isn’t doing so well – perhaps he’s had a fight with his best friend or had a bad day at the office – he doesn’t need you to offer him solutions. He isn’t looking for someone who has all the answers.

He just wants you to listen.

This can be hard to do for some women; we feel like it’s our duty to intervene and offer our man some advice.

But he doesn’t want that. He just wants you to smooth out his mood by giving him your ear.

Alternatively, instead of giving him advice, disrupt his patten of thought by taking him somewhere. Take his mind off things with a meal or a drive. Suggest that the two of you do something together. Be the perfect girlfriend.

BE ON TIME (ISH)

There was an episode of the American sitcom Everybody Loves Raymond that perfectly illustrated how frustrated men get when their partners are always late.

Ray finally snaps when his wife is late once again for an important dinner. At the end of his wits, and firmly believing that she doesn’t respect him, he drives off without her.

Of course, it’s the wrong way to deal with the situation, and Ray probably got it wrong when he thought his wife’s constant lateness meant she didn’t care for him. But the fact is that our lateness can really get on a man’s nerves.

Women take time to get ready. We know this and guys know this. But if you’re constantly late for things – especially things that are important to him – you’re not playing the rule of perfect girlfriend.

Try to be on time most of the time. If you must be late, try not to be more than 10 minutes late. He’ll really appreciate it and you’ll be moving up to the role of perfect girlfriend, yay!

DO YOUR OWN THING

It’s real sweet when a woman takes an interest in a man’s hobbies. He likes that. He wants you to show an interest in what he does.

It’s not even so bad if you watch a game with him now and then, and even take a liking to one of his hobbies.

Things become an issue, though, when all of his hobbies become your hobbies – or when you no longer have any hobbies of your own.

Basically, you’ve decided that the two of you are One and that you have no life outside this relationship.

Cute? Nope. It’s going to suffocate him.

A guy – any guy – wants his girl to do her own thing. He wants her to have her own life outside this relationship.

He wants her to have her own hobbies and her own interests.

The last thing he wants is for him to be pottering away with his hobby while you sit on the couch with your phone, huffing because you won’t spend the time with him.

When he’s busy doing his thing, make sure you’re busy doing your thing – he’ll love that.

SHOW HIM LOVE

HOW TO BE A GOOD GIRLFRIEND

Show him love – lots of love. Hold him, cuddle him, hug him and embrace him.

Pick him up when he’s down. Look after him when he’s sick. Be nice to him, be kind to him and don’t be intentionally mean to him.

Display your love, show your love and love him with all that you’ve got.

LET HIM WATCH HIS SPORTS

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Some girls get really fussy about this one.

“You know, I’m glad he isn’t into sports. I couldn’t date someone who’s into sports.”

Er, he WAS into sports until you told him he couldn’t watch them anymore!

The thing is that most guys love sports – it’s probably something like 8 out of 10 guys.

Some guys love more than one sports; they’ll watch soccer, basketball, cricket, golf … the works!

And his love of sports isn’t something you should tamper with. Instead, you should just let him enjoy it.

Naturally, you don’t want a boyfriend whose life is literally consumed by sports – that would be hell. If he watches a tad too much, just have a chat with him and tell him you’d like him to cut his obsession down.

Otherwise, don’t nag him. Don’t demand he has to go shopping with you or see your mother in law when the playoffs are on. Show him that you’re willing to let him enjoy his sports. It’ll make you the perfect girlfriend in his eyes.

BE CLEAR ABOUT STUFF

Oh, you hate mind games? We’ve got news for you – guys hate mind games, too.

They HATE it when you’re vague about your feelings. They want clarity from you. Otherwise? This is a relationship that’s too stressful for them. It’s not what they need – and they might be inclined to look elsewhere.

That sounds harsh but guys want honesty. They want you to tell them EXACTLY what you’re thinking. Don’t make them guess. Don’t “test” them by seeing how well they know you without you having to say something. Speak up and be clear about what you want and how you’re feeling.

LOOK AFTER YOURSELF

It’s okay to pig out and eat junk now and then.

But it’s not okay to let yourself go so that it looks as though you don’t care about yourself anymore.

Keep in shape. Eat healthily. Look after your body and health for him.

LOOK GREAT WHEN YOU GO OUT WITH HIM

HOW TO BE A GOOD GIRLFRIEND

Guys really appreciate it when their women make the effort to look great each time they go out together.

We don’t mean that you should take the time to get dolled up to pop to the shops. But if you’re going out – even if it’s just to hang out with his friends – he wants you to look fabulous.

Guys want to show their women off. He loves you, you’re beautiful and having you by his side makes him feel amazing. It makes him feel confident and awesome and he appreciates how much time it takes you to get yourself ready so that you look amazing each time you step out with him.

AIM FOR EQUALITY

Sure, men like to take the lead. They like to play the role of protector and they want to be able to care for you and provide for you.

Men also like it when they earn the most money out of the two of you. It validates their role in this relationship.

At the same time, guys don’t like to be taken for a ride. As much as they want to play their role, they want you to play your roles, too.

Equality is important in a relationship. Who should pay for dates? The guy will happily pay for the first one, but he’ll be expecting you to be equally generous with your money.

Don’t put all of this on him and make him put in all the effort. Aim for equality.

BE A WOMAN

HOW TO BE A GOOD GIRLFRIEND

This one sounds like it should be obvious, but in 2018 it sadly isn’t.

Too many woman are focused on political correctness, rights and “overcoming the patriarchy” that they forget what it means to be a woman.

To be a woman means to know and use your femininity. This means looking nice, smelling nice. It means not cussing in public, not being vulgar and not giving into gossip. It means not being more drunk than him in public and causing a scene. It means be polite with your language, respectful with your dress and courteous with your manners.

It means carrying yourself with grace, taking care of yourself. It means being sensitive, well-spoken, compassionate, loving and caring.

BE THE BEST GIRLFRIEND EVER AROUND HIS PARENTS

As well as impressing him with your perfect girlfriend act, you also need to impress his parents.

The best way to a man’s heart (after his stomach) is through his parents. If you set a shining example in front of his mom and she falls in love with you, you’re doing well.

Don’t stop there – be a doll around his whole family! Make sure they love you, girl!

DON’T NAG HIM

HOW TO BE A GOOD GIRLFRIEND

We all try not to be the girlfriend who nags our man. We grew up with our mom who nagged our dad and we knew how much he hated it.

We told ourselves we’re not going to nag our boyfriends. It’s 2018 and nagging is old school.

Yet somehow, somewhere along the line, we started to nag. How did THAT happen?!

Nagging seems to be in the female DNA (it actually isn’t) and it can ruin relationships. We don’t like to do it, guys hate it – yet we still do it.

We could pin the blame on the man and say that if he actually did what we asked him to do the first time, there’d be no need to nag him.

However, this one is all on you. If you don’t want to nag him but want him to do something, you’ll need to change how you talk to him.

Don’t order him to do something – ask him.

If he still hasn’t done it – ask him kindly again but in a way that he’ll respond.

Say something like, “If I do the laundry tonight, could you take care of that mess in the garage? It would be a massive help and then we could watch a movie together.”

Nagging will just annoy him and make him not want to do something. You need to talk to him like he’s a proper human being, ha!

BE CONFIDENT

Yes, a man wants to be around a woman who’s sure of herself. He wants to be with a woman who’s sure of her role in this relationship and who knows that she’s the best thing for her man right now.

So display your confidence. Don’t ruin this by constantly asking him if he still likes you. Present the best version of yourself to him. Be secure about yourself and this relationship. He’ll LOVE that.

DON’T FLIRT WITH OTHERS

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Ever. If you do this, you’re giving him a reason to be jealous, and you’re also going to hurt him pretty badly.

For as long as you’re with him, your flirting day are over.

STROKE HIS EGO

HOW TO BE A GOOD GIRLFRIEND

Girl, we all know about the male ego.

If you know about it, why aren’t you stroking it yet?!

The male ego NEEDS to be stroked. Modern man literally can’t cope unless he’s told how awesome he is. He’ll malfunction!

Tell him that you love his strength, his muscles, his hair, his smile. Boost his confidence every once in a while. Your relationship will definitely improve.

GIVE HIM WHAT HE WANTS AND NEEDS

HOW TO BE A GOOD GIRLFRIEND

You can’t really give him what he wants and needs until you know what these are. Find out what they are, and make damn sure you meet his requirements.

DON’T ASK LOTS OF QUESTIONS

“So where have you been today?”

“What have you been up to?”

“Why didn’t you do what I asked you to do?”

Asking him lots of questions is a lot like nagging him – and he hates it. He hates his every move being questioned, and this is a surefire way to land yourself in his bad books as The Bad Girlfriend.

Just quit the questions. Have some trust. You don’t NEED to know his every move.

If he’s going out with the boys, you don’t need to know where he’s going.

If he’s an hour late coming home from a night with the boys, you don’t need to ask him why.

Take it easy, be nice and chill and let him do his thing. Be confident in your role here and have trust in him. These two things will make your relationship so much easier and they’ll improve your relationship hugely.

HELP HIM OUT

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We’re sure there’s been lots of times when he’s helped you out. So are you going to return the favour and help him out? Or are you going to go missing?

When he needs help, be there for him. If he asks you to lend him a hand, lend it. Let him know that he can count on you when he needs it.

QUIT BRINGING UP HIS PAST MISTAKES

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Guys HATE this.

Let’s imagine that you two had planned to go to a concert together. It was a band you both liked and you were looking forward to it.

Then he cancelled.

He didn’t cancel because he was sick – he canceled because there was an important soccer game on that night that he HAD to see.

The thing is that he’d always told you this could happen (because of the playoffs or something, who knows?!), but you were still left reeling.

To you, it wasn’t so much that it was unforgivable – it was more that you felt spurned. It felt like it was him showing you that he actually doesn’t love you all that much

And so for the next few months and even years, you continue to bring it up.

“This is just like that time you cancelled on me for that concert!”

Sadly, girls are like this. We can’t let go of things. We don’t really want to do it, but we can’t help reminding our men of the times they’ve stood us up or let us down. We want to punish them for their mistakes.

Guys don’t like this and it doesn’t make you a perfect girlfriend. They KNOW they made a mistake and they’re going to try really hard to make sure it doesn’t happen again. But they don’t want you to constantly remind them of their mistakes. So don’t do it.

SMELL AMAZING

Guys don’t like to go shopping for perfumes, and they haven’t got a clue what scent you’re wearing today.

All they know is that they like it when their woman smells amazing. So smell amazing for him!

Do you have other tips on how to be a good girlfriend? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comment section below.

Stay happy!

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***10 COMMANDMENTS OF A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP***

What makes a good marriage? Love is like a living, growing thing, it needs to be nurtured and cared for. If you take a relationship for granted and don’t put any effort into caring for it, then it is quite likely to fail. Take some positive steps today to keep your relationship healthy and follow these ten commandments of a happy relationship.

1. Always be loyal and faithful to one another

Trust and loyalty are vital ingredients in a happy relationship and, once that trust has been broken, it can be very difficult to regain it. Stay loyal and faithful all the time and stand by one another, whatever life brings to you.

2. Listen to one another. Really listen

Become just as good at listening, as you are at talking. Communication is a two way thing, so pay attention to your partner’s needs and feelings, and listen carefully to what they are trying to say to you.

3. Help one another grow and become the best they can be

Always remember that you are individuals, as well as a couple, and that you both need to grow as people. Encourage each other to succeed in your individual ambitions and celebrate your individual successes together.

4. Respect one another

Respect your partner in the same way as you would expect to be respected. Common courtesy and respect for a person’s beliefs and opinions are rights of every human being, and that’s the case inside a relationship, as well as in everyday life.

5. Spend quality time together regularly

However busy your schedule gets always make time to spend together. Go out on dates together, take vacations and get a baby sitter in some nights. You can live apart, even if you live in the same house, so don’t let that happen to you.

6. Never fight over money

Sort out and agree on finances before they become a problem, because disagreements over money are one of the biggest causes of relationships breaking down that there is. Formulate a budget and stick to it, and then there won’t be any fights over what can be a very emotive subject.

7. If something gets broken, fix it; don’t throw it away!

Be realistic about the relationship. Love isn’t the fairy tale that you might have been lead to believe, love has its downs, as well as its ups. Even the happiest couples in the world have had their bad times. It is how you resolve those bad times that really counts.

8. Settle disputes quickly and fairly

Try and settle disputes without resorting to heated arguments, because they never solve a thing. If you feel yourself getting angry, then walk away for a while and come back to the dispute later. There doesn’t have to be a winner or a loser in a fight, just a compromise that both parties are happy with.

9. Always be honest about your feelings

If you don’t tell your partner that something is upsetting you, then how can they solve the problem? Sometimes, even the things that might hurt your partner are better said, than left to fester.

10. Never forget the hugs and kisses

Keep the intimacy in your marriage and never forget the importance of a simple kiss or a cuddle. For a happy and long lasting relationship, you need to keep the fire burning, so don’t let your busy lifestyles get in the way of that.

How to have a happy marriage? What are your tips?

Stay happy!

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***33 THINGS GUYS LIKE IN A GIRL***

Guys are attracted to certain inner and outer traits when they meet a pretty lady, and it’s always good to know what men find appealing. We came up with these 33 things that guys find attractive in a girl, but probably after reading this article you can also share your ideas and tips on this subject. Let’s begin.

WHAT GUYS FIND ATTRACTIVE IN A GIRL?

1) HUMOUR

And who doesn’t like a good sense of humour?

2) SMILE

Smile is always attractive, and people usually give it back when you give them one.

3) WHEN A GIRL CAN GIVE HIM A MASSAGE

Well, this one is useful when you are already in a relationship.

4) WHEN SHE TELLS HIM COMPLIMENTS

Both men and women love compliments, so feel free to be generous with this one.

5) WHEN SHE IS FEMININE

Being feminine doesn’t necessarily men being weak, it’s just this kind, tender, feminine energy that men find so irresistible!

6) SHE IS ABLE TO CHEER HIM UP WHEN HE IS DOWN

This quality is useful not only in relationship, but also in friendship.

7) WHEN SHE IS POSITIVE

Positive mental attitude attracts only positive things and positive people in your life, and who wants to spend time with negative people anyway, right?!

8) WHEN SHE IS SMART AND CAN IMPRESS HIM WITH HER MIND

Intellectual connection is deeper than simply physical attraction and guys are usually impressed when they meet a smart and intelligent girl.

9) WHEN SHE TAKES CARE ABOUT HERSELF

Well, this goes without saying; taking care of yourself means that you love and appreciate who you are, and it’s only when you have a healthy self love that you can be in a happy and healthy relationship.

10) SHE IS OPENED FOR NEW THINGS

Trying new foods, traveling to new places, discovering new knowledge…guys find a girl who is curious and loves to grow – very attractive.

11) IF SHE IS MUSICAL IN ANY WAY, SHE CAN DANCE, SING, PLAY PIANO OR GUITAR

Well, this just means she loves good and positive vibes.

12) SHE IS A GOOD KISSER AND SHE IS TENDER…

Because guys find this feminine energy simply irresistible.

13) SHE IS SUPPORTIVE, ALWAYS ON HIS SIDE

When a guy finds a girl who always supports and uplifts him, he will never let her go…

14) SHE IS A GREAT LISTENER

This quality is one of the most beneficial, not only for a happy and healthy relationship, but also for healthy friendships and life in general.

15) WHEN SHE REMEMBERED HIS NAME FROM THE FIRST TIME SHE HEARD IT

This simply means that she is really present when she listens.

17) WHEN SHE IS ABLE TO UNDERSTAND HIS HUMOUR AND TO LAUGH AT HIS JOKES

Guys love for goof around and finding a girl that can laugh together with him is a real treasure.

18) WHEN HER PERFUME IS NOT VERY STRONG

Well, strong perfume is a sin of many ladies, because we often thing that the more, the better, but guys mostly agree that less is more for this matter.

19) WHEN SHE SLEEPS NAKED

Well, yes, this can add some spice to any even already happy marriage.

20) SHE WEARS BEAUTIFUL LINGERIE

This goes together with the previous one.

21) SHE IS KIND

Kind and feminine heart always attracts people, especially men.

22) WHEN HE CAN TRUST HER, SHE IS HONEST

Honesty is a very good foundation of any happy relationship.

23) WHEN SHE HAS BIG DREAMS AND CAN THINK OUT OF THE BOX

This is a rare quality, and if you have it, you are in the top!

24) WHEN SHE IS ABLE TO LAUGH AT HERSELF

Yas!

25) SHE MAKES EFFORT TO COOK FOR HIM, EVEN IF SHE IS NOT SO GOOD AT IT

This simply shows that she has a generous and caring heart.

26) WHEN SHE IS FORGIVING

This quality can be very helpful, especially during discussions and conflicts.

27) WHEN SHE LOVES KIDS

This is another good and feminine quality.

28) WHEN SHE RANDOMLY TOUCHES HIM, HIS ARM, HIS BACK OR HUGS HIM

Touch is very important in a relationship, as this is one of the love languages.

29) SHE CAN BE SPONTANEOUS, LOVES TO HAVE FUN AND PLAY

Playful spirit is a real deal when it comes to happy love and good companionship.

30) SHE RESPECTS HIM, AS WELL AS ALL PEOPLE

If a girl respects others, it only means that she is self confident and has also healthy self love and respect for herself.

31) WHEN HER HAIR IS LONG.

Seriously, according to many researches, guys prefer girls long hair.

32) WHEN SHE IS ABLE TO ENJOY THE GOOD FOOD AND NOT DIETING ALL THE TIME

Yes, guys love to share a good meal with a girl.

33) WHEN SHE TELLS HIM THAT SHE LOVES HIM

Well, this one goes without saying, when a girl is able to express her love and care, guys find this very attractive.

We hope you found it useful. Do you have something to add to this list? Please, feel free to share your thoughts with me in the comment’s section.

Stay happy!

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***10 THINGS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD BE THANKFUL FOR***

It’s easy sometimes, to get so caught up in worrying about the things that we don’t have, and stressing over what other people do have, that we forget all about the things that we have that we should be grateful for. Being a woman can be tough in ways that men will never understand, but being a woman also brings joy that a man will never know. Everyone has their own unique talents and abilities that they should be thankful for, but there are some of the basics that we often overlook. So let’s try and forget the problems and the worries for a while, and take a look at ten of the things that every woman can be grateful for.

1. Your wonderful sense of compassion

Your compassion is something that you can be proud of and thankful for. It’s that ability that you have to understand someone else’s pain and the desire that you have to relieve it. Sometimes compassion can seem a burden because it feels like you care too much. The truth is, though, compassion is a gift and no one can ever be too compassionate.

2. Your courage

Let’s not forget the courage that it took to get this far. Instead of feeling down about breakups, hardships, and disappointments that you may have had, be grateful that you had the courage to come through them and carry on. God has given you the strength to carry on, be thankful, because He has seen you through some pretty tough times.

3. Your beautiful body

As a woman, your body is more than just a vehicle to carry you around, it’s an absolute wonder of nature that can bear a child and nurture it. A woman’s body is a thing of beauty, whatever shape or size it is, and that’s why it is the subject of so many wonderful works of art. It’s also just the amazing thing that keeps you alive and lets you do all the things that you enjoy, so don’t take your body for granted; love it and be thankful for it.

4. Your mind

Your mind can take you to places where you can dream, your mind can lead you to new adventures, and your mind makes you who you are. Every single day, your mind is storing away little bits of information, organising them, and working out what will be useful and what will not. While all that’s going on, your mind still lets you laugh, love and cry, so it’s definitely something that we all should be thankful for.

5. Your ability to bring new life into the world

By just being a woman, should you choose to, you have the ability to bring new life into the world, and that’s a miracle that you can be truly grateful for. Having a child, nurturing it and then watching your offspring grow into fully rounded human being, is one the most wonderful experience that a person can have.

6. Your sensitive nature

So, you cry at sad movies and weddings…that sensitivity is what makes you so special. It’ also what makes you care so much about other people, and makes you so kind. Don’t be embarrassed by it, celebrate it, because it’s far better than it would be to be a hard hearted block of ice with no feelings at all.

7. The people you love

The people who you love are a gift to be grateful for. Friends, family, children…they all have a very special place in your heart. They make you laugh, cry and even despair, but you wouldn’t want to be without them, would you?

8. Your patience

We may not all be able to keep our temper, all the time, but for those times that you can bite your tongue – that’s something to be thankful for. Women do have more patience than men, most of the time, so that’s a virtue that you can be proud of. It will also help keep you healthy too, because you will suffer less stress and anxiety.

9. Your sense of humour

Your ability to laugh and to make other people laugh is a talent to be thankful for. It’s your laughter that gets you through tricky situations, and it’s your laughter that lights up other people’s lives. A sense of humour doesn’t fix problems, but it sure does make them easier to cope with.

10. Today

Every day that you wake up is a day that you can be thankful for. Each day brings the opportunity to meet new people, make a difference and to discover new things. Each day also gives you the chance to put things right, or to start over again, and that’s got to be worth saying thank you to someone for.

Stay happy!

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***FUNNY MARRIAGE ADVICE FOR NEWLYWEDS***

The wedding season is nearly here again, so, as hundreds of thousands of couples, all around the world fret about who to invite and who not to, and they brainstorm about all fine details of their big day, here’s some funny advice for newlyweds that will help them ensure that they have a long lasting and loving marriage.

1. For him: How to make your wife happy?

The way to wedded bliss is to understand the first simple rule of marriage. True wedded harmony is achieved by accepting that there are two parties in the marriage: one who is always right and one who is the husband.

2. For Her: Don’t try to change your husband

Don’t, for a moment, think that you will change your husband into a better man. If you think that you are going to knock those rough edges off him, you are going to be very disappointed.

3. For Him: Don’t expect your wife not to change

Our next funny marriage advice for newlyweds is for husbands: it is a proven fact that a gold band on the wedding finger of a woman flicks a hormonal switch that in her body that makes her broody, mature and always right. Live with it, there’s nothing you can do about it.

4. For Her: Stop reading romantic novels

Like we said, you are not going to change your husband, so don’t torment yourself with romantic novels. You’re in the real world now, complete with smelly socks, untidiness and various forms of gross behaviour.

5. For Him: Eyes down!

Guys, you’re going to need a lot of self-discipline now. You don’t even notice other girls, let alone look at them. Well, at least, for the first six months of your marriage, and then the rule might be relaxed a little, but only for looking!

6. For Her: Toilet etiquette

Our next funny marriage advice for newlyweds will be on toilet etiquette. It is not advisable to enter the bathroom within twenty minutes of your husband having done so. Also, until your husband is fully house trained, it is always best to wear shoes, when venturing in the bathroom.

7. For Him: Toilet etiquette

Practice your aim and remember these simple rules: toilet seat goes down after use, and, when necessary, open bathroom window when finished.

8. For Her: How to tell the time?

When he says that he will be home by 11.00pm after a night out with his friends, don’t lock the front door before at least 1.00am.

9. For Him: How to tell the time?

When she asks what time you have to leave home to make an appointment, always add one hour safety margin to allow for makeup disasters and last minute ‘essential’ phone calls to friends. The only exception to this rule is when visiting the in-laws.

10. For both

The happiest marriages are not those where couples say they have the best of everything, they are those where couples try and make the best of everything that they have.

What is your favorite funny marriage advice for newlyweds?

Stay happy, love and be loved!

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***8 IMPORTANT FLIRTING MISTAKES TO AVOID ***

For some, flirting comes easy and some people just seem to know instinctively all the do’s and don’ts of flirting. You’d think it would be easy to flirt, but there is a very fine line between being charming and being overly forward. So, avoid the embarrassing moment, when you realized that you have over stepped the mark and read our eight important flirting mistakes that you really don’t want to make:

1. Going too far

Flirting should be fun and subtle, and you don’t want to give the wrong impression; so a small portion of flirtatious innuendoes are fine, but don’t make them too blunt and obvious, or you will just scare the good guys/girls off.

2. No groping under the table!

Getting too tactile too soon is another flirting mistake. A light touch on the shoulder is OK, but, please, no groping under the table, that’s just tacky!

3. Don’t bore this new person to death with your entire life story

Talking too much about you is another flirting mistake. You’re flirting, because you want to get him/her interested and have them coming back for more, not so you can bore them to death with your entire life story. Not only is too much too soon going to be boring, but it’ll also leave you with nothing else to talk about next time.

4. Ignoring the signs

Watch the body language of your crush carefully, as you progress with your flirting from one level to the next and beware of the signs that you may have gone too far. If he/she starts fidgeting and looking around the room, then they are probably looking for an escape, so rein it in a little, you may be going too fast.

5. Getting too serious

Flirting is fun, keep it that way. Stay off serious topics and problems, such as politics, religion or your exes, and stick the light-hearted subjects of conversation. Show your crush that you are an interesting and fun person to be with. You want to come across as easy going and desirable person, not a high maintenance or overly complicated one.

6. Showing your fear

You need to show confidence to be a successful flirt and take some control over the situation. What you certainly don’t want to be is a giggly, nervous and timid person; that’s not going to work.

7. Being over rehearsed

Flirting is best when it comes naturally and doesn’t sound like a well-rehearsed script. If your patter is too slick, then it will come across as being insincere, as well as giving the impression that you talk to every new person that you meet like this.

8. Not knowing when to quit

Spot the signs and know when it’s time to quit your flirting. If you are getting no response, no feedback and he/she is starting to look embarrassed, then get out, while it’s still going good, before you potentially make a fool of yourself.

What other flirting mistakes should we avoid? Please feel free to share your dating wisdom in the comment section below.

Stay happy!

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***10 FABULOUS DATING RULES THAT CAN HELP YOU CREATE HAPPINESS***

There are no hard and fast dating rules that you can read up on, which will guarantee dating success, but there are some basic rules of dating etiquette that will help you avoid a disaster. You can’t really prescribe rules for dating, which after all, is supposed to be fun as well, so instead, tread these ten ‘guidelines’ to help you make the most of the dating opportunity:

1. A date is not a history lesson, so avoid talking about your ex

Apart from anything else, talking about your ex is just plain boring and you wouldn’t want to spend all night hearing about his ex, would you? A date should be fun, with a hint of future possibilities, not a history lesson for the both of you.

2. Leave your insecurities and fears at home and go on a date feeling confident in yourself

You’ve heard the cliché that you have to love yourself, before you can love anyone else and you’re probably bored of hearing it, but if you constantly run yourself down, then he’s going to start believing all those negatives to be true. Leave your fears and insecurities at home, when you go on a date, and make sure he sees the best in you. Be confident in yourself.

3. Keep the conversation going, but don’t dominate it

There’s no need to go into a cold sweet if there is a break in the conversation, but keep things trundling along at an easy pace, if you can. Show an interest and ask questions about him, without interrogating him, and don’t hog the whole conversation to yourself.

4. Give him the chance to be the gentleman

Many men complain about modern women being too ‘feminist’ and, sometime, even too ‘masculine’. Well, yes, it’s true that ladies nowadays can open their own doors and pay their dinners, but chivalry is always beautiful and romantic, so ladies, make sure to give your guy a chance to be the gentleman; let him open your doors, pull your chair, etc; these little gestures will make both of you feel special and will make your date exceptionally romantic.

5. Be a lady, but don’t be too shy

Yes, a lady should always stay a lady, but you don’t have to be coy these days, so if you feel like giving your date a cheek kiss or holding his hand, you don’t have to wait for him to make the first move. We’re not suggesting that you come all over him like rash though, there’s still a place for a little ladylike decorum here.

6. A casual conversation with a bit of laughter is far better, than an interview with series of 25 questions each

Don’t treat a date like an interview. Behaving like either the interviewee or the interviewer, is not going to get you anywhere, so loosen up and have some fun. Dating is a bit of an artificial situation, but casual conversation and a bit of laughter will tell you far more about each other, than a series of twenty five questions each.

7. What about contentious subjects?

Opinions differ on whether topics such as religion or politics should be discussed on a date. Do you get things like that out of the way quickly, so you know where you stand, or do you avoid them like the plague? The best option is to take your time and wait for these topics to come up naturally. If someone has really strong views, they will surface at some point and then, you can you decide whether they are deal breakers or not.

8. Don’t settle for second best, there are plenty of fish in the sea!

If you really don’t like a guy or there is absolutely no spark between you whatsoever, then don’t waste time hoping things will improve. It can’t always be love at first sight but, you know pretty quickly, if there is no spark at all. If this is the case, move on; there really are better fish in the sea for you.

9. Feel free to express yourself

You don’t want to start an argument, but you should be able to express your point of view, without being rude. Part of the purpose of a date is, after all, to find out if you are compatible, so you should be able to talk about things, even if you don’t agree.

10. Hold back on the physical stuff

Whether or not you jump into bed with a guy after the first, second or third date is entirely a personal decision, and one that is not judged or frowned upon anymore. Setting an artificial point in time, when you will allow this to happen doesn’t work anyway, so let that happen, when it feels right for you. Do, however, bear in mind that the good men will not disappear, if you do make him wait a while and many will respect you all the more for doing so.

What are your favorite dating tips and dating rules that work for you? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comment section below.

Stay happy!

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***10 FLIRTING MISTAKES YOU PROBABLY ARE MAKING***

10 Flirting mistakes you probably are making

Flirting is fun, flirting works, but flirting can also go very wrong! Whether it’s someone you know or someone you just met, nothing gets the message across to a guy that you are interested in quite as fast as flirting does, but as anyone who has dropped a flirting clanger before will know, when it goes wrong, it can go very, embarrassingly wrong. Even if you think that you have perfected the art of flirting, you should still read this post, because, here, we list out ten flirting mistakes that you are probably making and you don’t even know it.

1. Getting too close for comfort

The true art of flirting is to entice the guy, not to smother him! Don’t get too close, too soon, and don’t appear like you are clinging on to him for dear life. Guys like their own personal space and they like to think they are in control, so tempt him, tease him and flirt, but don’t be too clingy with him, or he’ll think he’s attracted some kind of stalker.

2. Keep it subtle ladies, subtle

Don’t go at it like a bull in a china shop; flirting works best when it is subtle. You can put a guy off when you make your flirting too obvious, so don’t try so hard and don’t go overboard. A light hand on his shoulder will do the trick, you don’t need to have your hand high up on his inner thigh to give him the message. Too much and you’ll scare a lot of guys away.

3. One guy at a time!

Even though we, girls, are quite good at multitasking, our next flirting tip for girls is to focus your flirting on the guy you are really interested in, and don’t flirt with other guys in the room at the same time. If he notices that you are flirting with other men, then the guy that you are really interested in will back off. You want to make him feel special and feel that you singled him out for your attention.

4. Don’t do all the talking

Some people get nervous when they are flirting and they start to babble on about themselves so much that the guy doesn’t quite know what hit him. You might feel excited and nervous, but you’ve got to give him a chance to talk too. It really is a big mistake for you to hog the conversation, so ask him questions about himself and give him a chance to answer you.

5. Never flirt when you’ve had one glass of wine too many

Don’t rely on the vino to give you courage to flirt with your crush, because that could very well lead to disaster. One drink to relax you is fine, but if you go over the top with the wine, you’ll go over the top with the flirting too. You don’t want to wake up the next morning thinking: ‘OMG, What have I done!’

6. Playing games

Men have short tempers and an even shorter attention span, especially, if they think that someone is just playing games with them. Flirting with a guy and then, pretending to not be interested and playing hard to get will definitely not get him interested. A little bit of playful teasing is OK, but don’t leave him with the impression that you are nothing but a tease.

7. Talking about the ex

Now is not the time to be moaning about how bad your life is or how bad your ex treated you. This is the time for light hearted banter and a bit of fun! If you start talking about your ex, he’s going to think you are on the rebound and that will certainly not endear him to you. Leave all your woes at home; they’re for another time and another place.

8. Acting helpless and dumb

Playing the dumb damsel in distress is another mistake that plenty of women make when they are flirting. Men do love coming to the rescue of a damsel in distress, but they don’t want to be with a girl who is completely clueless! Quite apart from that, he will probably see straight through the act anyway.

9. Giving everything away at once

Here is another one of useful flirting tips for girls – don’t give him your full life story in ten minutes either, you want there to be a little bit of mystery about you, so that he will want to find out more. You’re trying to lure him with little titbits of information about you that will leave him wondering and, hopefully, his imagination running wild!

10. Coming on too strong

As we mentioned earlier, subtlety is the key to flirting. It’s all about a hint of what might come and not an ‘in your face’ sexual advance. If you come on too strong, he could get completely the wrong impression about the type of girl you are and you might scare some guys off. He might even go and tell his friends and that’s how rumours and bad reputations start.

What are your best flirting tips for girls?

Stay happy!

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***9 THINGS YOU SHOULDN’T ASK FOR IN A RELATIONSHIP***

There are some things that you have every right to expect in a relationship and you shouldn’t have to ask for. Things like respect, honesty and staying faithful, shouldn’t need spelling out. Some people, though, go over the top with what they expect from their partner and expect too much. They use phrases like ‘you would do this or that, if you really loved me’ to coerce their partners into doing things that they don’t really want to. When that starts to happen, the relationship has become manipulative and one sided. You don’t have to be a mean person to ask for things that you really shouldn’t, you might be doing it without even realising. Make sure that your partner is not saying yes, when he wants to say no, and read these 9 things that it is unfair to ask for in a relationship.

1. Ask him not to see his family

It’s not unusual for men to have a love-hate relationship with their family, and you may dislike some of his family members too. That doesn’t mean that you can be the one to decide whether or not he sees his family. So long as you are not spending every day with his family, however you feel about them, you shouldn’t put obstacles in the way of his being with them sometimes.

2. Ask him to lie for you

Whatever wonderful webs you have weaved to get yourself out of going to work or talking to a friend that you don’t want to talk to; it’s really not fair to get your partner involved in the deceit. The odd little white lie might just be OK, but too many, and he will forget what he’s supposed to say and drop you right in it!

3. Ask him to stop being a man

Don’t expect your man to stop being a man. He’s going to want to watch the game sometimes, drink a few beers and, sometimes, he’s going to make a mess too. Give him some space in the home to do his man-things and don’t expect him to become the perfect example of domesticated man overnight. Take his thoughts into account when decorating the home too. Feminine pink florals all over the place might be to your liking, but they may not be to his.

4. Ask him to buy you things when he can’t afford it

A lot of guys are suckers for the womanly charm and, if you try hard enough, he probably will extend his overdraft to buy you that new designer handbag you have been after. Remember, though, with great power comes great responsibility! Don’t ask him to overstretch himself financially just because you know he will.

5. Ask him to give up his friends

Men need their buddies, just as you need your close friends, so don’t ask him to give up his time with the boys. It is perfectly natural, in a healthy relationship, for you both to have friends outside of the relationship. It helps stop the relationship becoming stale and boring.

6. Ask him not to have female friends

Don’t let your jealous streak take over the relationship; it is possible for a man to have female friends and there be nothing untoward going on. If you keep on pressurising him not to talk to other women, he will probably still talk to them and just not tell you about it. It would be far better if you were able to trust him more and have everything out in the open.

7. Ask him to love everything that you do

You can’t expect to have 100% compatibility in a relationship, so don’t expect him to like all the same things that you do. You don’t need to do absolutely everything together, so don’t ask him to join your flower arranging class if he doesn’t want to! You go and do your flower arranging and let him stay in and watch his favourite sports game.

8. Ask him to treat you differently to how you treat him

Healthy relationships are all about mutual respect, so you can’t treat your partner badly and expect him to treat you perfectly. If you lose your temper and shout at him, then you can expect that he will do the same to you. Or, to put another way, do unto your partner as you would have him do unto you!

9. Ask him to change

Don’t ever go into a relationship thinking that you will be able to change your partner, because you will fail. At the best, if you ask your partner to change who he is, he will put on an act to please you. Underneath, though, he will still be the same person and you having asked him to change will eventually lead to his resentment.

Treasure your love and stay happy

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***10 COMPLIMENTS THAT MAKE A MAN’S HEART MELT ***

10 Compliments To Give A Guy

Whisper it, but guys love to be complimented as much as women do. But what on earth do you say to a guy to make him feel good?! In this article, Beauty and Tips takes a look at 10 compliments that make a man’s heart melt.

We know, we agree with you – it’s usually men who are complimenting us. We didn’t know we were meant to compliment them back! But while guys like to wear these tough, brazen exteriors and pretend nothing ever affects them (except the sports results, of course), the truth is that – despite being from Mars – men LOVE to be complimented. In fact, they NEED to be complimented. A compliment does a few things. It reassures the man that you love him and still find him attractive (this is super important), and it also makes him feel good and gives him a shot of confidence. Naturally, you don’t want to compliment him too much. If you go too far, it’ll stroke his ego way too much. However, every now and then you need to chuck a few compliments his way. These can be said in person, or sent via text. Lost for words? Here are 10 compliments to give a guy that will make a his heart MELT.

“I believe in you.”

If there is one thing a man wants you to do (besides love him and support the same team as him, OF COURSE), is believe in him. This is key. If a man has a woman who believes in him, he feels invincible. It might not always seem like it, but he cherishes your opinion above all others. He values yours before his moms and his buddies. If he doesn’t get validation and support from you, life sucks. Look, he knows that one of the core ingredients for success is belief. Belief can carry him a LONG way. But it isn’t just his belief he needs – he needs yours too. Say these magic four words to him and you’ll let him know that you firmly believe he is the best. And he will feel amazing. Remember, a lot of what he does is for you, as much as it is for him. He wants to impress you, and he wants to know you believe he’s the best. So tell him!

“You’re Such A Good Listener.”

As you’ll surely know, it takes a lot of effort for a guy to listen to anyone, even his soul mate. As such, you know what would be amazing? If you showed him that his efforts haven’t gone in vain; that you’ve noticed them and want to compliment him on them.

“I loved the way your hair looked last night. Wear it like that more?”

The thing with compliments to give a guy is that you need to get specific, otherwise it can look like you’re just saying anything to make him feel good. So get into the specifics. Mention how great his hair looked last night. Tell him that he looked sexy when he was lying in bed this morning. Make him feel good about his appearance. Out of everyone, you are the one person who is meant to notice the details and the effort he puts in to make himself look good for YOU. So make sure that his efforts aren’t in vain.

“I love how forgiving you are.”

Men have a lot of values that often go under the radar. When we think of our man, we think of how talented, strong and friendly he is. But what about his more unsung qualities, such as his ability to forgive? Send him a compliment like this to show that you appreciate everything about him, including the things most people miss.

“I can always count on you for advice.”

This is another one of great compliments to give a guy. Why? Because he has amazing advice to give. He is the wisest person you know, and you trust him with your heart and soul to give you advice he thinks is right.

“I love the way you think!”

Believe it or not, men think about more than just sports, or who they want to put in their fantasy football team. They also think about more than where their next beer is coming from. We know, it’s hard to believe! The thing is, guys like to see themselves as deep thinkers (honestly.) More importantly, they want you to see themselves as deep thinkers, too. If you tell your man that you love the way he thinks, you’ll make his whole day!

“I’ve never felt safer around anyone but you.”

What is a man’s job in a relationship? How is he supposed to treat his girl? Well, he’s supposed to love her, treat her with kindness, make her laugh, take her out, make her believe she’s special and that he doesn’t want anyone else. He’s also supposed to make her feel safe. It’s his duty to protect her. Unless you compliment him like this every now and then, he might worry that he’s failed in his duty to keep you safe. Shoot him this compliment to remind him how well he is doing his job, it’s probably one of the most powerful compliments to give a guy that will boost his masculinity.

“I never want to let you down.”

Want to really stroke his ego? Send him this bulletproof compliment. Look, your man wants you to look up to him. He wants to believe that you admire him so much that you want to impress him. You don’t want to impress anyone – your family, your teachers, your friends – as much as you want to impress him. Remember, you guys are a team. And part of being on a team is pulling your weight and not letting the team down. Let him know you are going to do all that you can to win together.

“You inspire me.”

This is another one of great compliments to give a guy that can really melt his heart. We’ve all had a muse at some point. But imagine how awesome it must feel to know that you’re someone else’s muse? Let your man know that you love him so much that he pushes you on to do better. The respect you have for him is so high that he inspires you to be the best version of yourself.

“I’d follow you to the ends of the earth.”

Lastly, with this one, what you’re telling him is that he’s the most amazing, awesome person you’ve ever met. There is no one else you want. He will love it!

What are your favourite compliments to give a guy?

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