WANT by Anyoaha Cyril ***
In this world, the relationship between guys and
ladies makes this world interesting. But
unfortunately, men freeze when they see the girls
they like. Men cannot relate to the ladies that
touches their heart. They lack the courage to walk
up and chat up a girl. This is the main cause of
rape in this world. Men continue to disgrace
themselves in front of hot babes and babes
continue to treat them any how. Sending a girl 10
million naira will not make her to like, she might
end up having a back door lover else where but
touching and playing with her heart does the
magic. No matter how wicked a woman is, she
has a soft spot located for her lover. Women are
lovely and tender creature that make the world
Most men cannot walk up to a lady, chat her up
and collect her number. We have pass the level of
walking to a lady and start telling her love poems
because they have heard hundreds of love poems
I have been getting loads and loads of emails and
messages from guys who want me to write on
this topic. But before i continue, let me introduce
My name is Anyaoha cyril. I have been active in
the internet world since three years. I have make
many people achieve their goals both on how to
make money and on how date hot ladies.
And you know what, I am going to reveal to you 3
tricks that you can use to approach any girl, talk
to her, get her number and leave and she won’t
know that you just toasted her.
I know, sounds confusing right?
Stay with me, you will get this.
Now, to what I was saying:
One painful thing most guys pass through is
seeing pretty gorgeous girls they would like to
talk to but, due to fear of been insulted or
embarrassed by the babe, what they do is to
allow that fear make them not to make a move
on her.
Sometimes these girls are not just pretty but
friendly also, yet – the very thought of walking
up to her and starting a conversation makes your
heart pound, with sweat pouring down your face.
Then after you have succeeded in convincing
yourself not to approach her, you go home and
imagine all the things you would have said – if
only you had approached her
It’s absolutely normal, I know how you feel –
every guy feels that way from time to time.
But you know what; using these secrets I am
about to reveal right here you would be able to
walk to any girl no matter how classy she is and
get her number and she would be happy to give it
to you, even if you two just met. With this secret
you won’t be afraid of getting embarrassed by a
girl again.
Now, let’s begin…
Forget whatever you’ve been told while growing
The step by step formula to use in approaching
girls is this:
#1. Approach with an Ice breaker
#2. Make a Rapport
#3. Inject player’s conversational skills
#4. Take her number and leave.
Now; I will take number one first
THE BASICS: Most guys still approach girls with
the same methods they used as teenagers.
They walk up to a girl, tell her they like her and
expect her to drop her number into his phone.
Haba na, na jaz?
Here is the hard truth, bro…so far she is more
than 18, no girl will type her phone number into
your phone just because you told her you like her.
Not unless you are micheal jackson or jayz.
Here is why:
One; Girls hear “I like you all the time”. It doesn’t
work anymore; it worked when she was in
secondary school – but after two heartbreaks, her
eyes have cleared my guy.
Two; when you tell a girl that you like her, she
will automatically begin to play hard to get – that
is what she was trained to do from when she
started getting her first toasters
If you don’t use “ice breakers” when walking up to
a girl she would either not take you seriously, or
she would be rude to you or she would just
plainly ignore you.
So what are ice breakers?
They are just tricks or excuse you use just to talk
to a girl and to lower her defences.
Let me give you real life examples: when you walk
up to a girl and say something like;
“hi, I will be quick with this – I was having an
argument with a friend and he said girls are more
interested in money than love, you seem smart, I
think you answer would make sense – what do
you think, money or love – which works on you
I know; it’s long abi?
But guess what, it always works – every single
9 times out of ten, this simple question has
always led to a girl blabbing about how love is
more important or love is more important (it
never fails for me).
After she has blabbed on a bit; here is the next
trick – smile, say something like – “wow, that
was so insightful, you be great analyser sha. My
friend really needs to hear you speak – I would
love to continue this conversation some other
time, gat to run now”
Then bring out your phone and add: “call your
number, please”
This is basic psychology – when you ask a girl
for her phone number in this way she would have
little resistance giving you her number.
This is why:
One; You have tricked her into believing you just
want her number to further the conversation and
If she says no, it would seem like she is taking
the whole interaction too seriously.
Two; she doesn’t have to play hard to get
because you gave her the impression that you
only need her opinion, and not her number so you
can “chyke” her.
This is major trick of all these players who
effortlessly get girl’s number – there is nothing
special about them, they just know these things,
that’s all.
If you just walk up to a girl you just met, sing
“love poems” for her and expect her to drop her
number for you then you go beg tire o.
Now; if she still refuses to give you her number
after you have used this little trick what it means
is that you didn’t use the following during your
conversation with her.
#2. Making a Rapport
#3. Injecting player’s conversational skills
Some days ago, i had gone to a shopping mall
with a friend and we where in line to buy fresh
bread from the bakery inside the mall.
Somewhere in the front was this very pretty
gorgeous classy babe – she was extremely hot.
At that point i felt like i had to know her, so i
walked up to her, initiated a conversation, had her
laughing like crazy and by the time i was done
she gave me her number and asked me to call her
up anytime.
when i got back to my friend, his jaws were
dropped in surprise and he asked me: “how did
you that, na risk you take o – in front of all these
people na him you go chyke that kind babe”?
I laughed.
That is what guys don’t get.
The thing is this; i didn’t chyke that girl. i just
talked to her.
Let me explain; If i had walked up to that very
pretty girl and say “babe, i like you. can i have
your number?” – the kind eye she go look me eh,
it would be an eye of bullets. Do you know how
many guys say that to her every freaking single
day? – in real life, on her social media account, in
her street.
If i had opened my mouth to say something
sweet to her or to say something she hears all
the time like – “you are beautiful, i like you”,
definitely she would embarrass me. Of course she
knows she is beautiful, she has been hearing that
since she was 5.
can’t you see?
If you stop a girl on the road and start saying “i
like you” she go bone you, that is how she has to
behave – she has to act like she is not cheap
and the way to show everybody who is around
when you walked up to her that she is not cheap
is to wash you down or ignore you or be rude to
don’t you get it?
so all i did was to approach her, and used this
ice breaker – “Hi, i’m having a hard time picking.
i need female advice right now – which of those
pastries on that counter tastes better – the meat
pie, the bread or that fish roll over there”
i didn’t even introduce myself, but she was glad
to help. She started gushing about what i should
take, what i shouldn’t take, what i should leave,
etc. Don’t you get it, she can’t say – “free me,
what kind of question is that”. Girls like to show
that they know about something
Then as the conversation was going on i injected
this tip #2 i am about to reveal right now –
Here is what creating rapport basically means; it
is the art of talking to a girl like she is a long lost
friend you are seeing after 5 years, even though
you two have just met
How do you do this?
Simple – by making her laugh.
Let me tell you one very important thing; the
moment you walk up to a girl and make her laugh
– just one laugh from her, it releases a chemical
in her brain that automatically takes down her
defense and make her see you as a friend – that
is the simple way to create rapport.
And guess what; it is super easy to make a girl
When that very pretty girl was pointing out what
to buy and what not to buy all i did to make her
laugh was to smile and say: “jeez, i think i will
make you my special adviser on pastries, you
know this things inside out”
She laughed and then said: “No na, is just that i
come here regularly. I know their stuff”
Was what i said that funny?
No, it wasn’t. As a matter of fact it isn’t. Once i
said that, we immediately started flowing like
so why then did she laugh. It is just simple year
one psychology – when someone is helping you
out with something and you tease them on how
well they helped you with that thing, they would
automatically laugh – not because what you said
was funny but because it is plain psychology to
laugh over things like that.
Take for instance; if someone asks you to help
him with your pen and after giving him your pen
he says: “guy, this your pen make sense o. like
say you import am sef”.
what would be your reaction? to frown? of course
not, you will laugh and say something modest.
was it funny to say your pen looks imported? NO.
but you still laughed.
Hope you get it now.
Once you make a girl laugh; the chemical is
released in her brain that basically tells her:
“alright, i am comfortable with this guy”. When
her brain begins to respond this way and you use
the style of number collection i explained in tip 2,
there is no way she is turning you down.
This is the secret that have been working for
men. Girls need men that they will feel relaxed
with and not one that is dulling away or one that
is shy. In every discussion try to have a little bit
sense of humor to make the chatting lively. All
these common conversation “how is your day”, ”
have you eaten”, where are you”, “ok” are too
childish and outdated. We got to stop it. Some
guys complain that ladies always reply their
conversation with ok, cool and nice but fail to
understand that they might be the cause of it.
Try and give a lady that you are a nice guy and
leave the conversation to flow. Do not pestle her
with question rather give her some knots.
Doing this the wrong way could backfire and
make you look like a pervert – that’s where my e-
book,” THE BLACK RULE” comes in; in it i
explained the step by step way to use this
strategy so that girls will become madly sexually
attracted to you. This ebook will teach you on
how to attract and date beautiful girls no matter
who you are.