We all have that particular guy we like (and
can proudly call a crush) but may not want
to look desperate though we’re dying to
catch his attention.
The truth is, he may not want to ask you out
because you aren’t making an effort to get
his attention – you don’t flirt or even talk to
him enough to know that you are interested
to know him better.
Are you stuck in this type of situation? Holly
Riordan of All Women Stalk lists 5 ways to
do it without losing yourself in the process:
1. Keep your confidence up: When
you smile at your #crush from
across the room and he doesn’t
smile back, don’t turn away
quickly and act embarra$$ed.
When you flirt with him and he
doesn’t flirt back, don’t try to
backtrack and act like you were
just being friendly. If you appear
devastated whenever you don’t get
the reaction you want, he’s going
to a$$ume you’re self-conscious.
You need to keep confident, so
that he realizes he’d be lucky to
2. Don’t be someone you’re not: Don’t tell him
you love the band on his teeshirt if you can’t
name any of their songs. Don’t ask him to
see a horror movie with you if you can’t
stand the genre. Act like yourself from the
start, because if you end up dating him, he’ll
figure out that you were lying all along. You
can’t keep up a charade forever.
3. Don’t text him too much: It’s easy to send
him text after text, but you shouldn’t do it. If
he doesn’t reply to you, don’t try to keep the
conversation going by bringing up several
new topics in the hopes that one will keep
his interest. However, if he texts you back
right away, don’t play games by waiting to
text him back. Just answer him when you
want to answer him and don’t be afraid to
text him first.
4. Don’t get too emotional in front of him: If
you ask him out on a date (which you
should!), don’t guilt him into going out with
you. It’s not the #time to cry or to beg.
Remain confident and casually ask him if he
wants to hang out. If he says no, don’t curse
him out or whine about his answer. React
like a lady.
5. Don’t neglect other area of your life: Chasing
a guy is fine, as long as you don’t make it
your only mission in life. You still have cla$$
es to attend, friends to talk to, and a career
to pursue. Don’t become so blinded by a #
guy that you forget about the finer things in
6. Don’t let your jealous in front of him: You
can let your #crush know you like him in
plenty of different ways, so don’t do it by
acting jealous. If he talks to another #girl
and you flip out on him, he won’t want to
date you. You need to keep yourself calm
and collected, even when he’s a$$ociating
with #people you can’t stand.
7. Know when to give up on him: If he makes it
clear that he isn’t interested in dating you,
it’s #time to give up on him and find
someone new. Have you ever turned down a
guy, only to have him ask you out over and
over again? It can become annoying, and
even scary, so don’t do that to your #crush.
If you really like him, then you’ll respect his
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