*** 5 Truths About Marriage You Won’t Learn At Church ***

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Here are 5 truths about marriage that you probably didn’t learn at church but you should have.

1. Soulmates do not exist

Believe it or not, there is not just one person in this world that you could marry. Healthy relationships are made, not born. You can argue that there is one type of person that you should marry, but in all reality there is more than one person you could potentially choose to spend the rest of your life with.

If you are waiting for that perfect person to sweep you off of your feet, you will likely never find him, because no one is perfect. But imperfect people are great companions because they will strive to grow closer to God with you by their side.

 2. The first year of marriage is really, really hard

It’s not like the first day of marriage will bring a wave of hardships that you didn’t expect, but the shock of marriage and changes that you must make may cause your marriage to be a lot harder than you expected it to be.

One of the best things to remember about year one of marriage is that you aren’t going through your trials alone. This is the first time you really had someone going through it with you, step by step. Be proud that you were able to make it through the unexpected trials that were thrown your way. Keep your positive attitude going throughout your marriage because there are better days ahead. Your marriage will get better.

3. Your spouse won’t fix you

The only person who can fix you is you. If you have married someone that pushes you to be a better person, than you definitely should see yourself grow and change throughout the years, but only if you put the effort into it. God is the only one who can complete you.

If you have gotten married to cover up your insecurities, they will come out faster than you think; marriage is not the answer to life’s most difficult questions. It will be almost impossible to enjoy your marriage when all you want is for your spouse to make you their project.

4. Marriage isn’t about you

Don’t forget the difference between a marriage and a wedding. The wedding is a glorious day filled with smiles and a spotlight just on you and your spouse. The day may be about you and the commitment you are making, but once the reception lights go out, your spouse comes first. Every decision you make from then on should be made with your spouse in mind. You will constantly be serving them and putting their needs before your own. Marriage is not about you, and that is a good thing.

5. Marry someone with similar aspirations

With similar goals, passions, and dreams, some of the power struggles that arise in marriages can be avoided. Being able to deeply understand someone and in a sense ‘get on their level’ is best achieved when you have experience with what they are going through or have full support in their choices.

Are there things you didn’t learn at church that you wish you did? Share them with us! You never know when your words can impact the lives of others.

by DEALEH

Published on 15th August 2016 in Uncategorised at 1:45 am

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*** 11 Signs He Loves Your V@gina, But Not You ***

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It’s a hard truth to take.

You’re hot and heavy 24/7, and not only that, but you’re also really into this guy. Your heart and body want him at all times, and you’re wondering where you fall with this guy.  Is he into you for the right reasons or is he inside of you for HIS reasons? Namely being, your v**ina and not you? These are the 11 signs he loves your v**ina, but not you.

1. He wants to talk, but only about himself.

Does loverboy like to chat about himself and fail to ask you about your daily life? Somehow, this guy is all game to come by for some romping time. If the answer is yes, he’s in love with your v**ina and not you.

2. He’s never met anyone that matters to you, and he has no plans to for the foreseeable future.

If your man has never said “boo” to anyone that knows your first, middle and last names, you have a problem. Does he have no outward desire to connect with your family or friends? If it’s a yes, he’s not into what you offer as a person, but is into what your body has to offer his man-hood.

3. He loves to send you late night texts.

Let me guess, he was busy with friends all evening and now that the bar is starting to close, Mr. Hottie is suddenly available to see you now? Those late night texts and “gestures” to see you are all blatant signs he’s just down to bang, and nothing else.

4. He’ll buy you the lamest birthday gifts.

He doesn’t care about what you really want, he gets just ang gift.

5. His favorite topic is your body, 24/7.

He has all kinds of things to say… if it involves your p*ssy, br**sts, b*tt and legs. The rest of you? He doesn’t care about your graduate degree applications, new roommate, or sick parent. He doesn’t care that you had a bad day, that your dog is lost, or that you and your BFF are fighting. He cares that you give good head and ride him as he wants, bottom line.

6. He doesn’t know your middle name or last name, and he doesn’t plan on asking today.

Do I have to explain? I don’t think so.

7. He tells you he doesn’t want a relationship, so you should listen.

If he tells you he doesn’t want a relationship right now, but yet right now he wants to have s*x, he’s just into your v**ina.

8. You can’t have a deep conversation with him.

He doesn’t know you hate spiders or that you cried when you heard your first serious boyfriend got married. The deep thoughts you have or he has are not up for discussion.

9. He can’t commit, yet he can’t let you go.

If your man can’t commit to you, but at the same time tells you he still wants to see you and can’t let go of contacting you — whether for dates or late night fun — he’s probably just hooked on the bedroom action.

10­. He’s committed to someone else already.

Shame on you for bothering with this assh*le, but if he’s committed to someone else yet barking up your tree, it’s not because he’s falling out of love for her, falling into love with you, or confused. He’s doing it because he wants to f*ck you, and that’s all.

11. He doesn’t say “I love you.”

If you’re wondering if he loves you and he hasn’t told you yet, but he has no problem pontificating over your hips and milky thighs, he doesn’t love you. He loves your s*x.

Ladies, would you continue to allow him have his way? I guess not! The best relationship is one which the love isn’t based on s*x….abstinence pays, it gives you value and respect before a man.

by DEALEH

Published on 15th August 2016 in Lifestyle at 1:37 am

*** 12 Sure Signs Your Boyfriend Truly Loves You ***

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Take a look at these 12 signs that show if your boyfriend truly love you and make your decision on where exactly is your position in his life and this will help you to get more focus as to concentrate on the love or move on to secure a better relationship that has something positive to offer you.

1. Communication: If your guy really love you, he will want to communicate with you at every point in time no matter what. He will talk more often to you than any other person in his life, even his friends will receive much less communication than he talks to you.

2. He gets captivated by you: Have you ever caught him in the act staring at you when you’re busy doing something else? It’s a sure sign that he really love you and he want to get more of you and can’t wait till you’re free.

3 He can goes all the way for you: if a man truly love you, he can do all things for you to make you happy at all time even if it’s something he does not enjoy doing ordinarily. He can even go all the way with you to the market and help you in your shopping.

4 Together time matters to him: A guy will go all the way to look for how he can spend more time with you than any other person in his life, spending time with his best friends or family will surely take a back seat and the time he’ll be spending with you will take the front seat.

5 The impression Continue: The impression he gave you that won you over will not stop after you’ve become his girlfriend, he will continue to make it happen again and again and even extend it to your family members as well.

6.  He Love hugging you: He will hug you for no reason at all and hold you more than a few second thanking you for being part of his life though he may not open his mouth to say this but right there in his mind is making the statement.

8. Your thoughts always on his mind: He can’t stop thinking of you always because he has you as top priority in his life. For you to know this, call on his attention at times when you know he will be busy doing something elsewhere to come assist you in sorting something out, he will go all the way to come around and help you out.

9. He flaunts you: Because he love you, he can talk about in front of any damsel that he knew before and make you proud because he is sure of his love for you, something guys who don’t really love you cannot do.

10. He let out his secrets: He will share with you the secret he has never share with anyone before, the secret that he’s afraid of telling his friends so that he will not be mocked. He will be opened to let you know those secrets because he trust and love you.

11. He’s not judgmental: He will not scold you even if you’ve done something wrong, he will just let you understand in a friendly manner what you have done and at times he may even try to pull your leg but is just to make fun of it.

12. He’s changed his world: If a guy truly loves you, he won’t mind changing his lifestyle all because of you, he can miss a crucial game of football that even you yourself know very well that he love. He can as well miss a movie he wants to watch and put you first to attend to your need before his.

by DEALEH

Published on 15th August 2016 in Lifestyle at 1:21 am

*** 5 Dream Men Of Ladies And Their Bad Sides ***

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Men and women alike have their metaphorical mate in mind. And when on the prowl, this fantasy mate is the standard that potential prospects are measured by. But have you ever thought about the cost of dating your “type”?

Here are five popular personas that may be more costly than most people would expect.

 1. Life of the Party

He has a charismatic, fun-loving personality. Everyone loves to be around him because he is the life of the party. He loves being the center of attention, and he is always “on.”

Unfortunately, he doesn’t know how to turn it off. As such, you are constantly his audience of one, which can be extremely exhausting and tiresome. Socially you’ll have the best relationship, but romantically, you might end up with the short end of the stick.

2. Bad Boy

The bad boy brings excitement, adventure and the thrill of the chase. Their aloof personality might be alluring and even mysterious, but it may also be a shield to hide their personal issues and private pain, which some men feel they need to hide to not seem weak.

As such, some men use the bad boy persona to model their perceived image of what masculinity looks like. Dating a bad boy in the beginning will appear to be fun and exhilarating. However in the long run, you will be disappointed because he is not ready or available to give himself to you mentally or emotionally.

 

3. The Celebrity

Whether a internationally-known celebrity or just a notable public figure in your hometown, the opportunity to date a celebrity is more likely than not. But don’t get caught up in the glitz and the glamor. A celebrity has to work overtime to make sure his name, image and B.rand stay intact at all times.

Meaning a relationship might not be a priority; and it will likely take the backseat to his career. Take plenty of pictures because this may be the only way to see him regularly.

4. The Mogul

The mogul is versed in a myriad of subjects. He is cultured, well-traveled, successful and driven. Depending on your background and exposure, he will possibly introduce you to a new level of sophistication and an entire new way of life.

Unfortunately, due to the demands of his business, he works non-stop, 24/7. He will not always be available. And although he is committed to the relationship, you will often feel as if you are competing with his business.

5. The Artist

He is creative, in touch with his feelings and is extremely expressive. He lives in the moment and engulfs all things you. As intoxicating as this experience may be, establishing roots can be tricky. They live for the creative side of life, and some continuously seek escapes rather than dealing with the reality of life.

Artists can be extremely moody, and at times, they will need their egos stroked. For some, their love for their art is No. 1, and you will always be No. 2; and they will never apologize for that fact.

by DEALEH

Published on 15th August 2016 in Lifestyle at 1:17 am

*** Ladies, These Are 10 Little Signs You’Re Always On His Mind ***

Ladies, if you have always been confused in knowing how exactly your man feels about you, this will definitely help you.

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1. He messages you cute little inside jokes throughout the day. First off, having couple-y inside jokes? Pretty adorable. Maybe he sees something that reminds him of his pet name for you or sends you a Vine that perfectly encapsulates how you are when you’re hangry. He’s just always trying to make you smile. To be fair, though, inside jokes for couples are only cute for the couple that has them. From the outside looking in, they’re lame as hell. It’s sort of like riding a hoverboard. Everyone else thinks you’re an idiot, but you’re like, “Whatever. I’m having a great time on this hoverboard.”

2. He’s always surprising you with something on his way home. Whether he stopped off at a gas station to buy you the Twix you mentioned you were craving or brings you flowers “just because,” it means he saw something that made him think of you. It doesn’t mean a big financial gesture, it just means remembering things that matter to you.

3. He follows up on conversations you’ve had. He texts you to find out what happened with your meeting at work or what Stacey just “had to tell you over drinks.” Either the guy is secretly obsessed with gossip, or he legitimately cares so much he needs to know what’s going on in your life.

4. Everything reminds him of you, and sometimes it’s a reach. Maybe sometimes you’ll get a picture of some napkins with the caption, “lol remember?” And when you reply with “???” he’s got some distant memory he can’t believe you didn’t immediately recall. “Don’t you remember on our first date when you needed a napkin?” And then he gets hurt that you don’t. It would be sad if it weren’t sort of cute to you.

5. He messages you first thing in the morning and right before he goes to bed. You’re always the first and last person he wants to talk to. You can tell he’s always excited to tell you about his day.

6. He remembers insane anniversaries. “This is the anniversary of our first date” is probably about as far back as most couples go. He remembers the first text, first sleepover, first time you had $ex. He has a beautiful mind for your relationship. And he’s so casual about it. He’s like a relationship Terminator, except instead of being good at wielding robotic weaponry, he’s good at snuggling.

7. He always messages you when he’s out. Just little things like, “Missing you.” But even when he’s out with friends or on a business trip, he’s still thinking of you. And you love knowing that you’re always on his mind.

8. His gifts are so specific and personalized that they put yours to shame. He somehow manages to get you exactly what you want for birthdays and holidays. Sometimes it’s something you didn’t even know you wanted, and he still nails it. And then you’re like, “Here’s an iTunes gift card,” and you cry in the bathroom.

9. Sometimes he texts you just as you’re about to text him. And then you do that thing where you’re like, “OMG, no seriously, I was just about to text you, but for real, like, you have no idea I was literally typing a message when you sent that.” And he’s all, “lol k.”

10. Sometimes he’ll post throwback pictures of the two of you “just because.” But you know it’s really because he was sitting at home going through old pictures and missing you.

 by ONPOINT

Published on 20th August 2016 in Lifestyle at 4:30 pm

*** Ladies: Define His Love With These 31 Signs ***

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Love is such a hard thing to define. To some people it’s a feeling; to others, it’s an action. And although it can be challenging to pin down exactly what love is, its manifestations are pretty easy to identify.

 

Here is a list of signs he isn’t in love:

 

1. He doesn’t remember things you tell him

2. He compares you to other women

3. He avoids physical contact

4. He doesn’t have respect for things that are important to you

5. He’s uninterested in solving problems

6. And when you try to solve problems it turns into a big fight

7. He doesn’t make time with you a priority

8. He tries to change you

9. He doesn’t offer to help you

10. He’s constantly on his phone when you’re together

11. His goals don’t align with yours

12. He doesn’t trust you

13. You are losing trust in him

14. It’s hard to talk about things that are important to you

15. He puts you down, even if it’s “joking”

16. His friends and family don’t know much about you

17. And he doesn’t respect your friends and family

18. Being around him doesn’t make you feel good about yourself

19. He doesn’t share personal details about his life with you

20. He never says “I’m sorry”

21. He tells you he needs space

22. It’s hard to have a good conversation

23. He’s easily annoyed by you

24. You’re not his No. 1 priority

25. He’s consistently negative

26. He keeps secrets

27. He doesn’t talk about the future

28. He’s not curious about your life

29. He doesn’t treat you differently than other people

30. He spends a lot of time talking to other girls

31. It’s not obvious that he loves you

At the end of the day, you can feel it in your gut. If he loves you, he will make sure you know it.

*** 11 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage ***

It beats my imagination when I see grown up dudes cultivating adolescence habits even though they are old enough to have set of kids they are fathering. As a result of this, ladies consider them as being unserious for marital settling down
The below points indicate a guy who is not ready for marriage;
1. He keeps several girlfriends
The flirtatious nature of some dudes can be likened to that of a rooster that chases several hens desperately and shamelessly. They however service several kitty-cats and hold boastful thrust of discussion amongst their friends, without knowing that chasing every lady on the street is not an achievement and will never be an achievement anytime any day. This is a sign of immaturity which shows that a dude’s mind is not preoccupied with marriage but bull.poo.
2. Being too dependent on parents
It is a degrading and shameful habit for a grown up man to make cooked up stories just to scam his parents for money. However, they are just so dependent on their parents for ridiculous things such as recharge card, hair cut, etc. Depending on your parents for this ridiculous things does not dignify a man.
3. Uncontrolled spending
I pity the life of some guys who spend as if there is no tomorrow. Once they make money, they won’t even think about future hardship but will spend this money on rendezvous with these hungry ladies we see around.
4. Laziness and idleness
I can’t but shake my head when I see guys clustered at jedi jedi/otapiapia seller shops. These guys having nothing bothering them and can be used for political agitation and thuggery. They are always waiting for the day God will throw them money from heaven, without working for it.
5. Eating and sleeping at friend’s house
Some dudes don’t even have caution of what they eat. They can sell their birthright just like the case of Esau. Which lady will even go on a date with this kind of a man?
6. Poor perception about Love
Some guys lack purpose, mission and vision in life that planning seems to be like a mission impossible for them. Their mentality has been wired awkwardly that the perception they have about relationship is just to $ex, and when a lady denies them of it, they will say she doesn’t love them.
7. Being too proud to apologize
Guys who blame people for their misfortune and wrongdoings are nothing but dumb skill. They feel like they are doing a lady a favour by dating her. Even when they offend their supposed girlfriend, they will always expect her to apologize to them. These kind of guys have no business being in relationship at all.
8. Poor religious life
Some dudes can spend the night at club house but make dem spend ordinary one hour for church or mosque, na punishment.. That you are thinking of settling down should be a more reason why you should get closer to God and have a personal relationship with him rather than wasting your precious time at bar and clubs.
9. Becoming a regular Visitor of the Brothel
I used to be a regular patronizer of the brothel. Wait ooooo !!! Before you tongue-lash me, I never opined that I used to bleep prostitutes oooo, I only said I used to be a regular patronizer of ashowo joint. But now that I’m thinking of settling down it wouldn’t be nice bleeping prostitutes when I have a girlfriend.
10. Going for singles” programme just to meet with New Babes
I think I should be awarded a golden medal for this. When I was still very much young, my friends and I used to put on our best attires at the mention of “single programmes” held in churches in our locality even though we were never invited. I could remember vividly when I joined my fellowship workforce and became a choir member just to have the attention of a lady in the choir unit whom I had been fantasizing. But now guys don grow, we don’t do that bullshit again
11. Playing Nairabet, 1960Bet, Bet9ja, Baba Ijebu and the likes
Truth be told, guys who are regular patronizers of the aforementioned betting companies are not even ready to marry. nobody should quote me oooo
*Quote me to say rubb-ish and I will show you why elephant is the only mammal that cannot jump*

*** 12 Types of Single Girls — Which One Are You? ***

How your love life is going depends a lot on how you approach it. Here are 12 types of single girls to help shine a light on what your style is (they each have upsides and downsides but there’s one that we think is ideal – you have to read on to see which one it is!):
1. The Romantic. You’ve watched every rom com out there and are looking for a soulmates-kind-of-love like Allie and Noah’s in The Notebook. Settling is definitely not your thing. You’ll know you’ve found THE guy because he’ll shower you with love, affection and gifts while whispering poetry in your ear at a dinner he organized next to a waterfall as a band he hired plays your favorite songs beneath the setting sun. It will be beautiful.
If you’re her, remember: There’s nothing wrong with holding out for your soulmate or expecting your guy to be a romantic but be reasonable. Men in real life don’t behave like characters played by Ryan Gosling on screen.
2. The Cynic. You’re not a fool. You’ve been around the block once or twice and your bullshit detection system is so tight, it could have been built by NASA. When you meet a guy, you don’t fall hard and fast — you actually a$$ume he’s an a$$hole from the beginning and make him prove he’s not — you’ve had your heart broken a few times and, damnit, you will not let it happen again.
If you’re her, remember: We’re all for making a guy prove he’s worthy before letting him in but being too careful/scared can make you seem closed and limit your opportunities. Be open, hope for the best, and take chances. Like they say in the lottery ads, you can’t win if you don’t .!
3. The Picky B*itch. You are the bomb so, of course, it takes an extraordinary man to capture your attention. If he doesn’t check all the boxes on your ever-growing list, you can’t be bothered. Your friends say you’re being too selective but you disagree — you just have standards. You know what you want and you’re going to wait until he comes along.
If you’re her, remember: Love is an adventure — it’s unpredictable — so there’s a huge chance that the person who knocks your socks off won’t be anything like what you imagined. Toss that list and take every guy on a case-by-case basis. If you don’t, you could miss out on some amazing experiences, lessons and the guy of your dreams.
4. The Serial Dater. OMG, what’s everyone b!tching about? It’s not that hard to find a guy. Maybe not for you because, well, you like everyone . That guy who’s totally boring? At least he has a good job. That guy who’s not smart at all? At least he’s fun. Your friends think it’s weird that you don’t have a type and accuse you of not having standards but you don’t care — as far as you’re concerned, they’re just jealous because you’re always with someone.
If you’re her, remember: Being open is great but being so open that you’re always taken isn’t healthy. It’s important to take some time for yourself in between relationships to reflect on what you need and really want — we bet you’ll suddenly become more picky.
5. The Desperate Chick. Like the Serial Dater, you’ll give anyone a shot but your reasons are different. You’re tired of dating and scared to end up alone. You NEED to be with someone, like right now, or you’re going to end up spending another evening binge-watching The Mindy Project with a bag of oreos. Your solution: trying really, really, REALLY hard.
If you’re her, remember: Trying too hard is an awesome way to end up with a terrible guy. You need to put dating and men out of your mind for a while and just have fun. Stop trying to force it… If you step back a little, stop obsessing, and take the pressure off, dating will be fun again.
6. The Fatalist. You are done. Not done like The Desperate Chick who’s just ready to accept anyone but DONE as in romantic comedies just straight up piss you off now because you realize what bullshit this whole love thing is. You tried, it didn’t happen, and now you’re just going to chill in your apartment and let yourself go because why even bother? All those people who are in love are eventually going to break up or get divorced anyway. You’re just saving yourself the heartache.
If you’re her, remember: Rejection, breakups, heartache — that stuff is HARD. But that doesn’t mean it’s okay to give up. The reward is too big not to try. You don’t realize that because you haven’t met the right person yet. But when you do, you’ll understand why it was all worth it. So stop b!tching and pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back in the game.
7. The Alpha. You are fiercely independent. You don’t just have a job but a career, and no one has ever accused you of not having your sh*t together. You definitely want love in your life but guys have such weak egos that they’re usually intimidated by your success. What’s a girl to do? So, you just keep focusing on work, going on the occasional date when you can fit it in, hoping something will work out one of these days. And if not, oh well, work is already basically the love of your life anyway.
If you’re her, remember: Your life is what you make it. If you want love, you have to make room for it. It’s that simple.
8. The Clock Watcher. You want a baby. In fact, you want a baby so badly that you don’t even care about the guy. As long as he has good DNA and a job, you’re down to get knocked up (which is why you don’t even insist on condoms anymore). Sure, it would be nice to fall in love too but whatever — at this point, as long as you get some spermies that can swim, you’re cool.
If you’re her, remember: We get it. And if you want to go to a sperm bank or ask a guy friend for some of his stuff, that’s cool. But it’s not cool to go around having unprotected s*ex with the hope of finding yourself preggers. It’s actually kind of messed up.
9. The Mess. You don’t know what you want. As long as you’ve had a few drinks, you’re happy and open to anything and anyone. Sure, you often end up in compromising situations — puking in the street, waking up at some random’s house, stumbling home in a daze — but that’s what you do when you’re young, right?
If you’re her, remember: Being young is awesome but squandering that time in a haze of booze is not. And the guys you’re attracting — not the good ones. Get yourself together.
10. The Pragmatist. You’re all business. You’re not looking for fireworks but for a stable life partner you can trust. And finding him is your part-time job. You believe it’s all about putting in the time and effort… So, you’re focused and organized — you’re on all the dating sites and you go to all the right places. If you make this enough of a priority, and meet enough guys, one of them will eventually fit.
If you’re her, remember: What you’re doing is fine. Just remember to loosen up and have some fun too. If you let go a little, you might be surprised and end up not just with the stability you’re looking for, but the fireworks too.
11. The Princess. You have old-fashioned sensibilities and need a chivalrous guy. More than anything, you expect to be adored, taken care of and kept according to a certain lifestyle. Whether it’s sending you flowers, whisking you away for the weekend, or taking you shopping, the right guy for you will be the one who’s all about YOU.
If you’re her, remember: People in love take care of each other but if you’re all about being taken care of financially, you run the risk of coming off like a gold-digger. Just as women don’t like being objectified for our bodies, men don’t appreciate being objectified for their bank accounts.
12. The Zen Girl. Sure, it would be great to be in love but being single is pretty amazing too. While your girlfriends are obsessing about how to find their next boyfriend, you’re happy living in the moment, enjoying your freedom. After all, this is the youngest you’ll ever be and you might as well milk it for every ounce of fun.
If you’re her, remember: This is exactly how you should be. Live your life fully and everything you want will show up.

*** 5 Pleasant Ways To Break Up With Your Partner ***

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Every breakup doesn’t have to end on a bad note. Unless your partner was toxic to your well being, there’s room for close friendship after the break up.
There are ways to end a relationship that are nice and amicable. Staying as friends is more important than any issues you might have with each other.
Here are some tips on how to end a relationship very peacefully so you can stay friends with your partner:
1. Honesty: Be completely honest with your soon to be ex-partner. And while being honest try to be nice too.
2. Don’t do it over the phone: Using any other device is unacceptable. Emails and text messages could be quite disrespectful.
3. Don’t answer back when they are upset: Make them understand why you are doing it. Don’t fire back even they hurl insults out of anger.
4. Choose the right time: Make sure your partner is stable. You don’t breakup with them when they are going through some other emotional issue, that’ll be too much for them.
5. Don’t include anyone’s name during your discussion: While letting them know why you don’t want to be with them, you can spare them details of your new partner if you already have one. Take their feelings into consideration first.

*** 8 Signs She Has Lost Interest In You (Must Read For All Guys) ***

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Has your girlfriend suddenly started acting differently around you? Have you been trying to understand her actions but just can’t seem to figure them out? Well, the reason she’s been acting differently may be because she is losing interest in you.
In our article the 5 Signs She’s Not Into You, we examined signs of a woman’s low interest level in the early dating stages. But what about when you’ve been together for a while? If you see that your girlfriend exhibits any of the following warning signs, you have reason to be concerned.
1. She Puts Her Girlfriends Ahead Of You
All women are entitled to a girl’s night out here and there with their girlfriends, but if spending time with their girlfriends has begun to take priority over you and she consistently leaves you at home to gallivant in nightclubs, she is definitely losing interest in you.
2. She Avoids Public Affection With You
If your girlfriend has allowed you to kiss her or hold her hand in public in the past and suddenly begins rejecting your advances or moves away from you without an obvious reason, you have reason to worry about her interest level in the relationship.
3. She’s Lost Interest In s*x (With You)
If she has suddenly become bored by your performance in bed and you’re rarely hitting the sheets any more, she may be wishing for someone else to rub her the right way.
4. She Starts Fights With You Without Any Good Reason
If she has all of a sudden noticeably lowered her tolerance level for your little mistakes, constantly picks fights and turns every little thing into an argument or a disagreement, chances are her interest level has lowered and she is probably unhappy about the way your relationship is going.
5. She Shows Interest In Other Guys
If you notice your girlfriend openly checking out other guys and flirting with other men while you’re right there beside her, it could be her way of sending you a subtle message that she’s shopping around for another man.
6. She’s Put Distance Between You
A woman who is in a happy relationship always makes time for her partner. So if all of a sudden you don’t see your girlfriend for a week or more and when she does answer your calls, she is busy and is always in a rush to get off the phone with you, something is definitely wrong. Take this as hint that she wants time apart to explore what it feels like to be away from you.
7. She’s No Longer Affectionate Toward You
If she just sits there and does nothing when you attempt to touch her and caress her or you’re always the one who initiates the hand holding or hugs first, a breakup may be impending.
8. She Begins Saying “I” Instead Of “We”
If you feel like your girlfriend hardly talks, doesn’t contribute much to the conversations you have your and she starts to use “I” instead of “we” when talking about the future, this means that she does not see a future with you in it anymore.
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